Why is that so hard?
Because two unique humans are involved.
Individuals each have their own history, ideas, beliefs and desires, but are also driven for connection, support and love. You found someone who matched your ideal and hoped it would work out. Your lives intertwined, forming an attachment and you naturally feel like you need them. Those strong feelings power your desire to continue in the relationship, even when conflict arises. But is it True Love or are you simply role-playing?
What's happening now? If something isn't working, what will happen if you continue the same way? It's time to surrender to the realization that despite effort and achievement, your relationship's condition isn't everything you imagined.
My GRAND LIFE Coaching Method™ centers around creating new thought and behavior patterns by dissolving the uncertainty that creates role-playing in your relationship. But progressing beyond your invisible limits isn't all - you will also learn to nurture True Love by integrating The FOUR PILLARS for a GRAND LIFE™.